Ephesians 5: 21~24(via the Message)
Out of respect for Christ, be courteously reverent to one another.
Wives, understand and support your husbands in ways that show your support for Christ. The husband provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to his church, not by domineering but by cherishing. So just as the church submits to Christ as he exercises such leadership,
wives should likewise submit to their husbands.
The Number One need of a man is:
Eph 5 tells us to honor our husbands
as if "to the Lord"
even if your husband is not acting
His actions are not your responsibility..
We are directed by the scriptures as wives
how we are to act..
We should never compare our husbands by other people in our lives
or even worse by what you see on television.
(which thrives on disrespect and demeaning)
Allow your husband to be human.
We are an equals , in our relationships
and you have every right to voice your opinion in LOVE.
But remember that your husband is NOT GOD.
He is Human,
he had needs, desires, feeling,
worries, concerns and is sometimes just bogged
down the the world and its demands.
The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone.
I will make a helper suitable for him
God design for us is to come to him in prayer for our husbands.
We are to be his Helper.
What better way to help our husband than
to go to the father in love for the them..
And who knows him better than the wife who God make suitable for him..
We are to partner with the Holy Spirit in Prayer for our husbands
and show him Love and Honor.
We will not always agree with our husbands
on everything he says and does..
(just as they will not always agree with us )
But allow him to be Human.
Trust in Gods Plan for our lives.
Come to the Lord in Prayer for your
Husband and for your Marriages.
And partner with the Holy Spirit
(the original Helper)
to honor your marriage covenant..
dont forget that our grown boys
desire Honor as well..
As their mothers let us show them
honor in example of how one day
their Helper(wife) will also honor them.