The bible refers to two people as being created by God to be "Helper's"
The Holy Spirit :
"And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper(Holy Spirit), that He may abide with you forever. (John 14:16)
And the Wife..
The LORD God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” (Genesis 2:18)
Now Holy Ghost Jr we are NOT.. but never under estimate your position and appointing by God as Wife and Helpmate..
Do your best to make God proud...